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Clergy Drop out — Family (8)

April 9, 2012

On this Easter Monday, when we have just celebrated the resurrection and new life, let us begin building a list…

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Clergy Drop Out — Family –(7)

April 6, 2012

If you accept that the profession of being a pastor is stressful on both the pastor and his or her…

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Clergy Drop Out — Families (6)

April 5, 2012

In the past several blogs, I have dealt a lot with expectations from the congregation, the session, each other, and…

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Away on trip March 26 through April 4

March 26, 2012

When I return, we will again reflect on the pressure of the ministry on clergy families and how we might…

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Clergy Drop Out — Family (5)

March 23, 2012

Sometimes when expectations are named, people will recognize that they are unreasonable and the expectation is altered or discarded. I…

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Clergy Drop Out– Family(4)

March 22, 2012

From family therapy, I learned that problems can either bond or divide a couple. If, for example, long hours at…

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Clergy Drop Out –Family (3)

March 21, 2012

Yesterday, you clarified some of your projections of what each of you expect of each other as a spouse within…

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Clergy Drop Out –Family (2)

March 20, 2012

A major pressure on clergy families are the expectations, real and perceived. Expectations of others can be difficult to respond…

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Clergy Drop Out – Family (1)

March 19, 2012

I once heard a Catholic priest say that the church considered the family our domestic church. I’ve always loved that…

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Clergy Drop Out — Under Appreciation (4)

March 16, 2012

Several lessons in experiencing and expressing appreciation are: It is best if it is specific and not general. It is…

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