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Ministerial Couple Without Children
October 1, 2009
Below are a set of questions for a ministerial couple who do not have children. If you have not read…
A Family Conversation that Includes the Children
September 30, 2009
Below are 27 questions that you should place on individual 3 x 5 cards and shuffle them so that there…
Having the Conversation
September 29, 2009
When was the last time that you had a fairly indepth conversation about your experience of ministry? If you have…
Theological Discussion on Employment
September 23, 2009
I want to build on yesterday’s discussion about how a church behaves when expectations of leaders are not met. First,…
When a Congregation Fires Someone
September 22, 2009
I recently talked to a pastor about a negative termination experience at a church. It recalled for me several times…
Redemptive Possibilities in Betrayal
September 17, 2009
When a clergy person or a prominent church leader engages in activity that betrays the trust of the congregation, it…
Helping Congregations Discuss Boundaries
September 16, 2009
It is difficult for either clergy or congregations to raise the question of boundaries. For the clergy, being asked to…
Clergy and Youth boundaries
September 15, 2009
One of the sadder realities of the change in ministry is the necessity of reviewing our boundaries with respect to…
The Hunger for Human Touch
September 14, 2009
One of the great quanderies that has evolved in ministry is how to set boundaries in interpersonal relationships. This ranges…
